5 Steps to Landing Your First Role on a Private Estate

June 2025

A professional photo of Chloe Rodwell (Domestic recruitment specialist). She is leaning on a wall holding a cup of tea.

AUTHOR
CHLOE RODWELL, director of Abode Staff Ltd

I’m regularly contacted by people who are interested in working on a private estate but aren’t sure how to get started. Whether they come from hospitality, farming, trades, or property management, they often ask the same question: “How do I get my first role on a private estate?” I’ve written this guide to give you clear, honest, and practical advice—drawn from my experience placing staff on some of the UK’s most beautiful and prestigious estates. If you’re serious about breaking into this rewarding field, this blog will show you exactly where to begin.

Elizabethan Manor house in The Cotswolds, Oxfordshire, England

Step 1: Understand What It Means to Work in a Role on a Private Estate

Before applying for any role on a private estate, it’s essential to understand what these jobs involve. Unlike commercial roles, estate jobs are often live-in, long-term, and deeply connected to the rhythms of private family life or heritage land ownership.

Common roles include:

  • Estate Gardener
  • Housekeeper
  • Live-in Couple
  • Chauffeur
  • House Manager
  • Gamekeeper or Groundskeeper
  • Chef or Cook

Working on a private estate typically means:

  • Upholding high standards of discretion
  • Being adaptable and able to take initiative
  • Managing seasonal demands (harvest, shoots, guests, etc.)
  • Becoming a trusted part of the household or estate team

If that sounds exciting—not intimidating—you’re already on the right track.


Step 2: Identify Your Transferable Skills

Even if you’ve never worked on an estate, you may already have the skills employers are looking for. The key is presenting them in the right way.

Examples of useful backgrounds:

  • Hospitality: High attention to detail, guest service, and cleanliness
  • Trades: Maintenance, repairs, and practical knowledge
  • Farming or grounds work: Experience working outdoors, using machinery
  • Housekeeping or nannying: Household support and discretion
  • Military or security: Reliability, protocol, and professional conduct

Tip: Create a list of what you’ve done, and match it to estate needs. If you’ve run a B&B, worked in property maintenance, or cooked professionally—you already have a head start.

Entrance to stately home country estate

Step 3: Tailor Your CV for a Role on a Private Estate

You only get one chance to make a first impression. A great CV for a role on a private estate should:

  • Highlight relevant skills and experience first
  • Be concise—1 to 2 pages max
  • Use plain, professional formatting
  • Include location, availability, and willingness to relocate
  • Emphasise discretion, flexibility, and trustworthiness

Include:

  • Specific duties you’ve done that relate to estate life (e.g., use of gardening tools, housekeeping, pet care)
  • Any formal training or courses (e.g., RHS gardening, food hygiene, first aid)
  • Clear references or “available upon request” if privacy is a concern

Step 4: Be Open to Entry-Level or Seasonal Roles

Breaking into the world of estate work can sometimes mean starting with a seasonal or part-time position. These roles are often used to cover holiday periods, events, or busy seasons, and they can be a brilliant way to:

  • Gain hands-on experience
  • Learn estate protocols and routines
  • Build references within the industry
  • Prove yourself for a permanent position

Great entry points include:

  • Seasonal gardening or grounds work
  • Housekeeping during the holidays or summer
  • Weekend cooking for a family
  • Live-in caretaking while the family is away

Once you’re in—and impress—the chances of a full-time offer increase significantly.


Step 5: Work with a Specialist Agency

You can absolutely find estate jobs yourself, but working with a recruitment agency that specialises in roles on private estates gives you a distinct advantage:

  • Access to vetted, private opportunities not listed publicly
  • Support with your CV and interview prep
  • Advice on realistic salary expectations
  • Help managing paperwork and contracts

What to look for in a good agency:

  • Clear vetting process
  • Strong understanding of estate life
  • Transparency around fees (you should never pay to be placed)
  • Ongoing support even after you’re placed

View our current jobs here.


Bonus Tips to Strengthen Your Application

  • Take a relevant course. Even a short online housekeeping, first aid, or gardening course shows initiative.
  • Keep your social media private and professional. Employers value discretion.
  • Get your DBS check ready. Many estate roles require one.
  • Consider live-in roles. Being willing to relocate opens up more opportunities.
  • Ask for feedback. If you don’t get a job, request feedback so you can improve.

Final Thoughts on Landing a Role on a Private Estate

Getting your first role on a private estate can feel like a big leap—but with the right preparation, attitude, and support, it’s absolutely achievable. These roles can offer long-term security, beautiful environments, and the chance to become part of something truly unique.

If you’re serious about this career path, start by tailoring your CV, identifying your transferable skills, and staying open to entry-level opportunities. And if you’d like expert help with the process, I’d love to support you.

Get in touch to learn more about our current vacancies and how we can help you take the first step toward your estate career.

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